Take Back Your Life
You’ve Spent Years Swallowing Yourself To Keep The Peace, Dimming The Fire So No One Gets Burned. This Isn’t About Fixing You — It’s About Unleashing What’s Already Whole And Complete Within You, Beneath The Conditioning. If You’re Done With The Struggle And Ready For Real Change
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Imagine feeling your emotions without fear. The shame that’s held you back begins to loosen its grip. The isolation ends. The emotional paralysis that’s been running your life starts to fade. You stop shrinking yourself to keep the peace—and begin living as your fully alive, authentic self.
I’m Joe Ryan, Inner Work Coach and host of It’s Not You; It’s Your Trauma. I don’t rely on theory or textbook approaches. I’ve walked this path myself—through childhood trauma, family dysfunction, emotional neglect, and the heavy weight of shame. I know what it’s like to feel trapped in your own pain, and I guide others with steady, honest support that meets them where they are.
The fear of being seen in your shame is real. Your nervous system learned that hiding kept you safe. But true freedom comes from facing it gently, step by step, until the shame and self-doubt begin to dissolve.
Break Free From Conventional Talk Therapy
Most therapists haven’t lived the experiences we carry. They haven’t stood in the places we fear, faced the shame we hide, or navigated the wounds that shape our lives. If a therapist hasn’t walked that path themselves, they can’t fully go there with you. I know this firsthand—I’ve fired more therapists than I can count.
That’s why I became my own guide. I learned to sit with my own pain, navigate my buried emotions, and hold myself with the compassion I needed.
This isn’t theory. It’s not textbooks or endless analysis. This is real transformation. In our work together, you’ll gain the tools and presence to:
See the ways your “false self” was created to survive. Understand how it protected you—and how it now keeps you disconnected from your true self.
Gently uncover the childhood wounds, conditioning, and messages that made that mask necessary. No sugarcoating—just clarity.
Stop running. Sit with the buried shame, fear, and anger you’ve avoided, without judgment.
Release self-abandonment and hold yourself with steady, unwavering kindness. Give yourself the care you needed but never received.
Allow the real you to emerge—raw, confident, fully present. No hiding. No shrinking. Freedom becomes something you live every day, not just a dream.
You don’t have to keep surviving on autopilot or bracing for the next hit. Unstuck is possible. Real change starts here.
Joe Ryan is probably the most insightful human being I have ever encountered. I’ve worked with other therapists and coaches, but until I met Joe, I have never done work at such a profound level. With him as my guide, it didn’t take years to get me to transformation and self-understanding— the breakthroughs began in weeks. He deals with raw and real and takes you to places you didn’t even know you had inside you. I came across his podcast and coaching by chance, and they have been life changing. If you are thinking about working with him and are open to exploring an alternative pathway to peace of mind, you are at the right place.
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