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EP 0077 – How To Change My Partner (Subscription)
Are You Staying with Someone Based on Their Potential? Break Free from Repeated Relationship Patterns
Do you find yourself staying with someone because of their potential for who they might become someday? Is your relationship stuck in an endless loop of the same repeated patterns? Do you wish your partner would change to meet your needs? Are you seeking happiness from your partner?
In this episode of It’s Not You; It’s Your Trauma, Joe Ryan tackles one of the most frequent questions he gets: “How do I get my partner to change?” Whether it’s about your spouse, significant other, or even a family member, the answer is simple: YOU DON’T.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Recognize and Break Free from Repeated Patterns:
Understand the cycle of repeating the same relationship patterns—the “Wash, Rinse, Repeat” syndrome—and how to break free from it.
Stop Trying to Change Your Partner:
Learn why attempting to get your partner to see your worth and value is often futile and how it can negatively impact your self-esteem.
Benefits of Therapy:
Discover the surprising benefits of therapy and how taking the right steps can ensure your future safety and well-being.
Build a Life for Yourself:
Embrace the importance of expanding your circle of friends and connections and how building a life for yourself can positively influence your relationship dynamics.
Eliminate Fear of Change:
Overcome the fear of change and learn to make necessary adjustments before it’s too late.
Take Responsibility for Your Treatment:
Realize the importance of taking responsibility for how you are treated in a relationship and how you can take control of your own actions and reactions.
Key Takeaway:
This episode is a powerful reminder that your desired change starts within you. Instead of trying to change someone else, focus on healing yourself and taking steps toward personal growth. More often than not, the person you hope will change won’t, and accepting that reality is essential. By looking inward and working on yourself, you can create a fulfilling life and stop depending on others to change for your happiness.
Tune in to this episode to understand where you currently stand, what you need to do, and how you can make meaningful changes in your life without expecting others to change. Heal yourself. Stop trying to change your partner.
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